Introduction:
Good afternoon:
Today, we delve into God’s design for marriage—a divine blueprint that provides guidance and wisdom for couples seeking to build a strong and lasting union. As we journey through Genesis 2:18-24, let us discover the profound truths and enduring principles that illuminate the beauty and sanctity of this sacred covenant.
SERMON TEXT
Genesis 2:18-24 (NIV)
18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” 19 Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. 23 The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.” 24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Introduction: In the “House of Faith” series, we explore foundational truths and principles that shape our lives and relationships.
FOUR TRUTHS TO THE DESIGN OF MARRIAGE
I. Companionship and Partnership (Genesis 2:18):
In Genesis 2:18, we witness God’s recognition that it is not good for man to be alone. Out of His love and wisdom, God creates a suitable companion for Adam—a partner who complements him and shares in his journey of life. This highlights the fundamental need for companionship and partnership within the marital relationship.
II. Unity and Oneness (Genesis 2:23):
As Adam beholds Eve for the first time, he declares, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh” (Genesis 2:23). This poetic proclamation underscores the profound unity and oneness that marriage brings. It is a union not only of bodies but of hearts, minds, and spirits—a divine bond forged by God Himself.
III. Leaving and Cleaving (Genesis 2:24):
The institution of marriage is characterized by the leaving of one’s family of origin and the cleaving to one’s spouse (Genesis 2:24). This signifies a radical shift in priorities and allegiances, as two individuals become one flesh. It requires a willingness to prioritize the marital relationship above all others and to cultivate a deep sense of commitment and loyalty.
VI. Sacred Covenant (Genesis 2:23-24):
Marriage, according to God’s design, is not merely a social contract but a sacred covenant—a solemn promise made before God and witnessed by others. It is a covenant rooted in love, faithfulness, and mutual respect—a covenant that reflects the covenantal relationship between Christ and His church.
REFLECTION:
How does understanding marriage as a sacred covenant impact your view of your own marriage?
In what ways can you cultivate companionship and partnership with your spouse in your marriage?
What steps can you take to prioritize your marital relationship above other commitments and distractions?